Topic: 歇了手吧 @蒙特利尔华人论坛:蒙特利尔枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Montreal

两说吧, 如果遇到了靠谱的人, 她就会很开心, 反之就可能会把自己伤得很深~~~很高兴她能走出来 -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2012-8-24 (#7736945@0)

假如她还是这么简单，不纠结（至少表面上哦，BS下自己的心态，:-D),就算受伤，她也还会站起来，像她说的，很幼稚，没心没肺。。。。 -borntobethe(云角); 2012-8-24 (#7736973@0)

good for her ~~~ it's really hard for people to forget what happened - happy or sad -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2012-8-24 (#7736989@0)

U sharp ! -tattooo(刺青); 2012-8-24 (#7736856@0)
心高处亦是水流处。坚强往往是在崩溃里站起来。柔和硬没有绝对，恩和怨也没有永久。:-) -borntobethe(云角); 2012-8-24 (#7736869@0)

我是懒人，也许会坚强，也许不会，不过我不会希望遇到崩溃般事，废墟样情。简单快活。 -kingsw(Steven); 2012-8-24 (#7736917@0)

同希望～～～ :-)....简单点做决定，也许不用那么纠结，所以会快乐点。。。 -borntobethe(云角); 2012-8-24 (#7736938@0)

算她放下了吧。虽然我是不信。可是，我只是觉得她的那种坚决去做某件事的态度，正是令我羞愧啊～～～聪明人总以为自己聪明到什么都可以兼顾到，其实还不如一个自称幼稚简单得人，来得实在踏实。。。 -borntobethe(云角); 2012-8-24 (#7736884@0)

可能正是因为简单单纯, 做事才会那么坚决的一条道走到黑~~~ 这种人一般都很执着, 做事也比较果断, 不太会瞻前顾后的~~~ -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2012-8-24 (#7736921@0)

这个还得看她的性格, 是否争强好胜. 如果是个随遇而安的人, 做到这样应该不难~~~ 曾经拥有过就很美好~~~ -littlebird09(小小鸟); 2012-8-24 (#7737021@0)

好佩服啊－不计较一切的较真。真的呢，原来身边也有很多这样的女人。俺最近也知道了一个。她们总是把俺击中。 -uptowngirl(若初采香行处); 2012-8-24 (#7736870@0)

:-)...发现总在不经意的时候。你说她们执着么？可是她们把一些东西扔掉的时候，至少表面上是不拖泥带水的。。虽然，我是不信啊，但最终我会made to believe，就是歇了手的。。 -borntobethe(云角); 2012-8-24 (#7736906@0)

It appears to throw away the old. Actually, we are simply occupied by the new interest, new people, new hobbies. -nuanxin(nuanxin); 2012-8-24 (#7736952@0)

the ability to forget is an absolute necessity to live one's life as a serious process of creation. otherwise the degree of our freedom would be greatly reduced bythe burden from our past. as adults we envy the innocence of a child. however, the essence of childish innocence is exactly the naturally-born capacity of forgetting -- be it happiness, sorrow, betrayal, or destruction. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2012-8-27 {220} (#7742368@0)

can this be also called the optimism bias? :) -uptowngirl(若初采香行处); 2012-8-27 (#7742737@0)

yes, the ability to discern the absurdity of A' Q and yet willing to be one whole-heartedly when it is necessary -- in other words, the ability to thoroughly experience the tragic nature ofour life with the navity and lightheartedness of a comedian. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2012-8-27 {60} (#7742800@0)

good one,it's such a pity, it's easier to remember hating than kindness -iou(笨恐龙); 2012-8-24 (#7736966@0)

:-) 平生一大梦想，就是相逢一笑泯恩仇。。。。唉，dream is still a dream....深度BS自己。。。。反省去。。。 -borntobethe(云角); 2012-8-24 (#7736985@0)

in addition to fast food, the beauty idea are too narrow. for example, fashion section at wenxuecity, a lot of people define beauty in an very limited way. if sb like trendy stuff, they even cannot appreciate classic. -nuanxin(nuanxin); 2012-8-24 (#7737044@0)

你写的总是不错。 -burstofsilence(沉默); 2012-8-24 (#7737038@0)
Not easy, but give her enough time and space.Most of time, people won't give it up is because they couldn't figure out why and where things went wrong and the journey finding out that reason is rather tormenting. Accepting the way things are, is a way of life and is not in everyone. -nothanks(ciel); 2012-8-25 {240} (#7739222@0)
把过去统统都一刀删掉的人不是真正放下的人, 而只是逃避罢了.. -snow_bird(sunshine); 2012-8-25 (#7739235@0)
写的有意思！ -passer(匆匆过客); 2012-8-25 (#7739470@0)
性格决定命运，双方互相不是对方的那盘菜，终归要分离。 -11219(11219); 2012-8-25 (#7739544@0)
不必非要强迫自己放下吧，怀着对过去的回忆，张开双臂迎接新的开始，两样都揣着。 -tattooo(刺青); 2012-8-27 (#7742811@0)

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