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白玫瑰与红玫瑰

张爱玲在《白玫瑰与红玫瑰》中写道:“娶了红玫瑰,久而久之,红的变成墙上的一抹蚊子血,白的还是床前明月光;娶了白玫瑰,白的便是衣服上沾的一粒饭黏子,红的却是心口上一颗朱砂痣……”

男人大多有这样的通病,当认为这个女人已经完完全全被征服时,便会失去原有的兴趣与激情,故许多过来人常劝女人永远不要说有多爱男人,永远不要让男人知道你爱他,因为他会因此而自大。你对他越好,他越不拿你当回事。男人对女人亦然。

想来这也许就是人性的弱点,人往往对得到的东西不再珍视,于是人们发明了婚姻制度,试图用一种强制的形式将两个人拴在一起,来捍卫他们所得到的那份感情。呵呵,好像是作茧自缚。正因如此,生活中也就多了些悍妇和猥琐男。

其实,红玫瑰一直都是那么娇艳,白玫瑰也一直纯洁芬芳,只是爱情没了,剩下的只有婚姻的枷锁。

我在想,为什么不做回自己?永远做娇艳芬芳的玫瑰呢,让万恶的婚姻制度见鬼去吧!
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  • 白玫瑰与红玫瑰
    张爱玲在《白玫瑰与红玫瑰》中写道:“娶了红玫瑰,久而久之,红的变成墙上的一抹蚊子血,白的还是床前明月光;娶了白玫瑰,白的便是衣服上沾的一粒饭黏子,红的却是心口上一颗朱砂痣……”

    男人大多有这样的通病,当认为这个女人已经完完全全被征服时,便会失去原有的兴趣与激情,故许多过来人常劝女人永远不要说有多爱男人,永远不要让男人知道你爱他,因为他会因此而自大。你对他越好,他越不拿你当回事。男人对女人亦然。

    想来这也许就是人性的弱点,人往往对得到的东西不再珍视,于是人们发明了婚姻制度,试图用一种强制的形式将两个人拴在一起,来捍卫他们所得到的那份感情。呵呵,好像是作茧自缚。正因如此,生活中也就多了些悍妇和猥琐男。

    其实,红玫瑰一直都是那么娇艳,白玫瑰也一直纯洁芬芳,只是爱情没了,剩下的只有婚姻的枷锁。

    我在想,为什么不做回自己?永远做娇艳芬芳的玫瑰呢,让万恶的婚姻制度见鬼去吧!
    • Well said. It is not the fault of marriage system, it is the weakness of human nature.
      What is your game plan? How to be an attractive rose for ever? For ever- there is no such thing as for ever. By being self-protective, by no giving your love in full so you can always be cherished?
      • What a pity, you didn't get my point...never mind though:-)
        • Educate me, please.
          • I do believe in love but just don't believe marriage, I have nothing to lose without a marriage as long as we two love each other right?
          • Marriage is a prsion, it is meant to give you security.
            I know you do believe in love, but how can you make sure that you don't lose your love? The moment he knows you love him, or you tell him you love him, you start to lose him. Men don't cherish what they have.
            • Then leave him, isn't that easy?
              • Keep looking for the next one, I guess? Sounds good.
                • You bet, I don't want to be dying rose ever.
                  • Then how long will each relationship last, for the sake of discussion? 1 year?
                    • People saying that true love could only last 18 months, let's testify if it is truth :-P
                  • The whole love searching never ends. We don't cherish what we have. As soon as we fall in love, we fall out of love.
                    • Change the logic, as soon as we fall out of love, we fall in love okay? :D
                      • Agree. It is a closed cycle. If you like it, enjoy it. If you don't, get out of it.
                        • What a pity is that even people like it they just don't have the guts to step out of the marriage, suffering the bitterness might be very tasty eh :P