I found the key point of all your guys are still "money" If so, don't be shy to hide it.

victorzhou(patty)

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛1) If we should choose canada or china ---- by where we can earn more money
2) Wife can only earn a few hundreds RMB in china while she can earn 1000 dollars even with a labor job ---- this is pure money comparison
3) Man cannot achieve “人上人” ---- i.e. He cannot earn big money. How big? Bigger than what he can earn is canada, this is the bottom line.
4) People hesitate to go back to china because though they've heard enough "good news" and "success stories". With their years experience, they still have the basic wisdom to know that it might not apply to them. ---- If there is a promising opportunity to earn more money than what they can earn in canda, they've already gone QUIETLY. Someone got the offer in china which is not that good, so there comes another kind of discusstion. There's another forum for that. Anyway, all these discussion are just comparison on money.
5) There're a lot of easy money in china. However, there're a lot of these kind of opportunities all over the world every day. The question is if I can be the lucky guy? if I have the skills or network or some other things to be the winner?
6) China has been in fast developing since 1980. Most of you have stayed in china for most of this period of time before you left for Canada. (I think most of people in this forum came arround 2000). Just ask yourself one question: Why I cannot get rich or become “人上人” during the 20 years (from 1980 to 2000)? But suddenly I can make big difference if I go back to china now? 20 years! You've already got enough time to play your chances in china. You decided to leave china and gave up the opportunities of being “人上人” a few years ago. China, from then on, is a "foreign country" for all of us. It could still be a target of our next career move. But it's not "back" to china. If there's a job or opportunity of more prosperious, go! If not, stay! That simple.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

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赞一下。。。 -earthcitizen(地球公民); 2006-4-15 (#2906920@0)

再赞一下！加拿大就是适合楼主这样的人：不想欺压别人踩别人，也不甘心被人欺压被人踩；只想靠自己双手过上幸福安定的生活，但不追求“人上人”的生活。很多人问：自己适不适合来加拿大？ -sophiacc(sophiaCC); 2006-4-15 {97} (#2907493@0)
对照楼主就可以作决定了。如果总想踩着别人，作人上人，这种人要留在中国才好，来加拿大会水土不服的。

是啊我们这些要去的，都有这样的疑问？怕的是生活水平的下降，我老公要是这样的安于平淡就好了，可他总说累可还是喜欢挣钱，我也不好，喜望本公司尽快有明确的走势，别饿不死撑不着的。 -yaner(燕儿); 2006-4-16 (#2909661@0)
Very good point, I got the same feeling. -table(桌子来了); 2006-4-16 (#2909684@0)

补充：一位朋友去年登陆就回去了，今年终于痛下决心放弃国内的一切来加国定居。虽然很多人认为不值，他本人也犹豫再三，但我坚信，他的选择是正确的。他的情况和楼主差不多。 -sophiacc(sophiaCC); 2006-4-19 {340} (#2915030@0)
在国内知名公司工作，老实善良，工作特别努力，却混不成“人上人”。老婆年纪大，长像平平，文化不高，在国内根本找不到工作，又不可能去当“打工妹”，去赚那区区几百元，因此他感到压力很大。

来到这里，老婆可以马上出去打一份工，也够生活，家庭有２个人支撑，感觉就不一样了，踏踏实实打拼个三五年，也就和楼主的生活差不远了。

为楼主祝福，为朋友祝福。

I found the key point of all your guys are still "money" If so, don't be shy to hide it. -victorzhou(patty); 2006-4-19 {1923} (#2915349@0)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛1) If we should choose canada or china ---- by where we can earn more money
2) Wife can only earn a few hundreds RMB in china while she can earn 1000 dollars even with a labor job ---- this is pure money comparison
3) Man cannot achieve “人上人” ---- i.e. He cannot earn big money. How big? Bigger than what he can earn is canada, this is the bottom line.
4) People hesitate to go back to china because though they've heard enough "good news" and "success stories". With their years experience, they still have the basic wisdom to know that it might not apply to them. ---- If there is a promising opportunity to earn more money than what they can earn in canda, they've already gone QUIETLY. Someone got the offer in china which is not that good, so there comes another kind of discusstion. There's another forum for that. Anyway, all these discussion are just comparison on money.
5) There're a lot of easy money in china. However, there're a lot of these kind of opportunities all over the world every day. The question is if I can be the lucky guy? if I have the skills or network or some other things to be the winner?
6) China has been in fast developing since 1980. Most of you have stayed in china for most of this period of time before you left for Canada. (I think most of people in this forum came arround 2000). Just ask yourself one question: Why I cannot get rich or become “人上人” during the 20 years (from 1980 to 2000)? But suddenly I can make big difference if I go back to china now? 20 years! You've already got enough time to play your chances in china. You decided to leave china and gave up the opportunities of being “人上人” a few years ago. China, from then on, is a "foreign country" for all of us. It could still be a target of our next career move. But it's not "back" to china. If there's a job or opportunity of more prosperious, go! If not, stay! That simple.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

再赞，欣赏的就是你这样的心态！用自己的劳动换来幸福生活。Enjoy Your Life! -sunnyside(sunnyside); 2006-5-12 (#2965610@0)

总觉得男的喜欢这里的不多，所以，赞一个。 -o2o2o2(复活节); 2006-4-15 (#2906925@0)

I do; tend to deny though -tap-tap(开闸灌水); 2006-4-15 (#2907040@0)

赞！ -monte_cristo(基度山伯爵); 2006-4-15 (#2906949@0)

在军工科研院所工作，想移民就能移民了？搞不懂。 -winterfox(春田狐); 2006-4-15 (#2907018@0)

楼主最好不要让洋人知道您的背景，现在加国外长正要抓一千个中国间谍。您有军工背景有可能被凑数啊。 -aol(根正苗红--贫农出身); 2006-4-16 (#2908286@0)

赞一个。 -lazycow(阳光心情); 2006-4-15 (#2907067@0)

好, 好就是好. :)) -firefox(火狐之平淡是真); 2006-4-15 (#2907074@0)

看懂了,你说他"三好" -susse(芝麻); 2006-4-15 (#2907725@0)

老婆学历不高来这里最好，这是真的。人的幸福和金钱多少没有太大的关系。 -hoboo(©); 2006-4-15 (#2907078@0)

丁页. Good attitude. -leoniun(leoniun); 2006-4-15 (#2907080@0)

她学历不高,英语只有初中的水平 -- HIGHER THAN ME ALREADY -simmersnake(步履无声之手中无剑); 2006-4-15 (#2907119@0)

hoho，如果是说这里的初中水平，那可不算低了。:S 不过作者多半说的是国内的初中吧。 -pingle(苹果); 2006-4-15 (#2907189@0)

男的喜欢这里不多，再赞一个 -vetra(piyupiyu); 2006-4-15 (#2907150@0)

喜欢这里的男的可能不会比不喜欢这里的少，只是很多人很矫情，怕说喜欢这里跌份儿。 -rockywei(落基山); 2006-4-15 (#2907164@0)

哈哈，中国人好面子，爱吹牛 -lzh0007(lzh7); 2006-4-19 (#2915658@0)

幸福、快乐、如意！ -yueding(唱出了理想的爱情); 2006-4-15 (#2907212@0)

同感同感！！好好珍惜我们把握住的机会，认真快乐的在这里生活！祝你一生幸福！ -dreamstorm(快乐一生); 2006-4-15 (#2907273@0)

相似的经历相似的感受，估计也是相似的个性，顶一个。加油。 -worlddreamer31(村夫野老); 2006-4-15 (#2907496@0)

知足常乐，心怀感恩。很不错。 -mildkiller(M.K.); 2006-4-15 (#2907519@0)

很不错。平平淡淡才是真。 -hai(欲速不达); 2006-4-15 (#2907640@0)

下周二是我登陆5周年, 握手! -sleeping_beauty(田野里的麦苗); 2006-4-15 (#2907719@0)

朴实无华的幸福！ -choice(月光下的凤尾竹); 2006-4-15 (#2907770@0)

同感!同感! -yuanfei(yuanfei); 2006-4-15 (#2907780@0)

真诚向楼主表示祝贺. 并真心祝福. -lier(李耳); 2006-4-15 (#2907782@0)

我也是楼主同类型的人，对中国毫无好感，对加拿大满意得直哼哼。 -ddmzd(满意得直哼哼); 2006-4-16 (#2908101@0)

我也是楼主这种类型的人. 只想活的轻松,自在无忧,, 不必为世俗所累. 可在国内却被父母说不思进取/ 呵呵. 没有过过自由的生活, 不知自由的可贵啊. -hebecoco(hebe); 2006-4-16 (#2908266@0)
彼此，就是我老婆正相反 -lzh0007(lzh7); 2006-4-19 (#2915662@0)

我老公以前和我一样, 回国后却变了, 觉得国内是他的天下. 而我还是一样的心态. -hebecoco(hebe); 2006-4-20 (#2916291@0)

找老婆是不能找高学历的 -246(246); 2006-4-16 (#2908679@0)

而且必须是劳动人民出身的. -monte_cristo(基度山伯爵); 2006-4-16 (#2908684@0)
可怜俺的学历全家最低，太太、弟弟、弟媳一个比一个牛。 -cadillac(Caddy); 2006-4-23 (#2922789@0)

写得好 -mssg(Wild_Killer); 2006-4-16 (#2908689@0)

任何一个社会里，你得轻松程度是和你的责任紧紧相连的。。 -pengyou(friend); 2006-4-16 {236} (#2908695@0)

不要以为加拿大，透明的像一张玻璃纸，只要你的职位在公司里产生着影响，你的决定会影响其他人的生存质量的时候，和中国一样的事情，会接踵而来。我一直在西人公司工作，并不比在中国的时候轻松，唯一值得欣慰的是，公司还是看重谁对公司产生的贡献大。。

同意LZ, 加拿大不适合急功近利或是志大才疏的人 -awper(狙哥); 2006-4-16 (#2908801@0)

我喜欢加拿大，百分之百喜欢，没什么不好意思的 -cruiser99(Cruiser); 2006-4-16 (#2908805@0)

我不喜欢加拿大，50% -111111(快乐老家); 2006-4-16 (#2908811@0)
我爱加拿大200%! -sunnyside(sunnyside); 2006-5-12 (#2965615@0)

共勉。。 -111111(快乐老家); 2006-4-16 (#2908809@0)

钦佩你的生活态度，并祝福你的家庭幸福。加拿大适合追求生活平稳的人，中国适合追求事业发展和挑战的人，人各有志，不可强求。国内这几年变化很大，建议回去看看，不要停留在五年前的观点。 -watcher00c3c(麦田守望者); 2006-4-17 {52} (#2911315@0)

顺便说一句，请注意错别字和句读，毕竟中文是我们的根。

打这篇文章一定很辛苦了 -yueding(唱出了理想的爱情); 2006-4-19 {82} (#2914037@0)

1.在过几天 …… 再过几天
2.其实自己是在也不是那块料 …… 其实自己也实在不是那块料

咱也90年毕业，明天就来此地5周年了。虽然没你那么如意，但感觉是何其相似！谢谢了，我没时间打那么一大段。 -qese(有尘); 2006-4-19 (#2915382@0)

So do I -wuhanbeijing2000(TorontoChinese); 2006-5-1 (#2941099@0)

怎么就没觉得加拿大有你说的那么好呢? 让人心平气和? 没觉得啊. 好象是在说寺庙吧.不过喜欢就好,恭喜了. -henryjoy(Henry); 2006-5-12 (#2965330@0)

好文。我也爱加拿大，真爱。来了快6年半了：） -dropoutinmiami(饺子－打工赚钱付学费); 2006-5-12 (#2965415@0)

写得不错,生活应当这样.同勉.今年也是第五个年头. -bluerainbow(蓝虹); 2006-5-16 (#2973013@0)

祝福楼主，说出了我的心声，虽然来加才两年。希望每一个中国人都能过上这种生活。 -jamliu(酷巴比); 2006-5-19 (#2981101@0)

Keep it up! -torsha(TorSha); 2006-5-21 {304} (#2983548@0)

I am almost same age as you. It has been almost 9 years since I first arrived in Canada. This 9 years I have been through a lot. Good and bad. Looking back, I wish I had lived like you. I like your attitude. Enjoy while you can. Appreciate what has been offered to you. Good luck to your future.

Good for you! Good for you to immigrate your parents early, too! -minye(Steve); 2006-5-26 (#2993212@0)

祝贺祝贺！祝福祝福！ -rolian(Rolian); 2006-6-12 (#3025901@0)

有同感,是事实. -bobotoo(bobo); 2006-7-19 (#3090334@0)

同感 -mikesmith(老猫); 2006-7-19 (#3090562@0)

@Montreal

I found the key point of all your guys are still "money" If so, don't be shy to hide it.

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