最重要的是不要丧失对自己的信心，我相信你一定可以的，只是需要时间，此时心情一定不可以浮躁，静下心来想一想，在找工作上自己欠缺的东西有哪些，如何弥补和加强，在生活上，如果觉得很寂寞孤独，可以多出来走走，和朋友们聊一聊，你是个很内秀的女孩子，我想你会想清楚该怎样做的，祝好运！

现在的情况是很难，我技术不错，国内经验也不错，在这里三个月，没有拿到正式的IT面试，我想也不是简历的问题，代理的电话我是经常有，但都没用。我的想法是回国先，一方面强化技术，一定要能做最新的别人不能做的才有希望，否则就只有靠运气。回国另一方面可以考Toefl，这里也劝国内现在要来的朋友一定要把Toefl考了，做好准备。

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I don't know what you mean by IT. But keep in mind IT means a lot more than just coding.
If you have fairly good knowledge of computers (because you are an IT pro) and you have some administration experienc(as you mentioned in your post), you might be able to find a MIS position in some non-IT companies (e.g, retail, wholesales, finance, etc). The need for IT professionals in these sectors a larger than pure IT companies. And the pay rate is not bad at all. For a position like this you don't have to be an expert on a particular field(software, hardware, network, database, etc.), but you must be a Jack-of-All, e.g, someone who has decent knowledge for all the above fields -- you can install software on Windows 2000, configure tcpip, write unix shell scripts, mess with SQL statement on Microsfot SQL 7/2000, and help your accounting manager with his/her quarterly financial reports using Visual Basic and Excel Macro. There are many companies (small to medium in size. the bigger companies always have three people doing one person's job so they can fire any of the three at any time) are dying to find somebody like this. I actually read from somewhere in the next 10 to 20 years Internal IT support expert will be in huge demand.
I would not switch career path, but I would enhance my strength with knowledge/experience in accounting, company finance and operation. The two most critical elements in a modern small to medium size company are data retrieval and data analysis. Your IT backgroud will help you retrieve data (through programming and system knowledge), and your accounting/finance experience/knowledge will help you analyze data. What is operation all about -- make decisions based on analysis which in turn based on data retrieved and analyzed.
good luck. If you are already 50 you better stay here so you can claim wellfare. If you are still young you can afford to try out different options before you decided going back to China.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net